I experienced a crucial mind shift this week. I'm hoping that my written reflection will be enlightening not only for this teacher, who might be noticing a glimmer of light at the end of the tunnel, but also for you, the innocent bystander, who just might be able to relate.
A mind-boggling incident occurred at recess with one of my little people this week. My typical response to a mind-boggling incident (and I've experienced my share this year) would go something like this.
You've got to be kidding me. I work too hard on character each and every day for something like this to happen.
Instead, for some reason, possibly divine intervention, my response was both slightly and hugely different.
It's a good thing I work so hard on character each and every day. My kids sure need it.
This slight variation in wording rocked my world this week, in a really good way. The incident, though frustrating, didn't turn into a dark, gray cloud of despair raining down over my outlook on the condition of my classroom. Instead it encouraged and boosted my daily efforts. It validated why I do what I do and how hard I work to make a difference.
Seemingly, I accidentally stumbled across this new perspective, but I'm asking the question, how can I purposefully transform a previously negative outlook into something of promise and hope? I'm confident we all could use more of both.
Isn't it unbelievable how one little turn of the dial can make SUCH a huge difference? I love your transparency in this post; thank you for sharing so honestly.
ReplyDeleteBarbara, Yes it is unbelievable. It made me wonder how many opportunities I've turned down to turn the dial.
DeleteGreat post, Tammy! Thanks for adding the TLAP quote poster, too! :)
ReplyDeleteThank you Dave! I'm thoroughly honored you dropped by.
DeleteTammy,
ReplyDeleteThe idea of looking at the positive and not always the negative is so important. I wish more teachers were as reflective as you! Melissa
Melissa, I'm still working on this reflective thing. It's not easy some days for sure.
DeleteThis is so true! I believe everything can be a learning experience (even that big personal dragon I am battling right now!). What a great way to look at your situation and what a great attitude that is to model for the way your little ones will see the world.
ReplyDeleteMiss Trayers, I know I need to work a little harder at finding the value in the tough moments. It doesn't come naturally.
DeleteYay for turning corners and being able to see from a new perspective. It may be a sanity saver for you this year. It sure can be hard to do!
ReplyDeleteLori, It is hard, but like you said, it's good for my sanity.
DeleteIt's funny how sometimes it only takes the teeniest of tiniest of mind shifts to make a difference. Glad to hear things are maybe looking up a bit:)
ReplyDeleteBarb, things aren't "perfect" (it was a hard week) but I'm going to try to continue working on my perspective and expecting things to look up.
DeleteBaby steps:)
DeleteOn another note, I just switched over to part-time last week. I'm now teaching mornings only from 8:30 to noon. I'm already feeling very refreshed:) Is that an option for you?
Congrats on your new schedule. It does sound refreshing, although I'm not ready for that move quite yet. :)
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